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Chup rahena ladkiyo se sikho. Ladkiyo ki baate Pt.3

I know k title padh k aap k dimag m ek hi bat aayi hogi “WTF secret superstar pagal ho gaye ho kya ladkiya to pura din bolti raheti hai bla bla bla…” Ha ye sach hai k ladkiya pura din bolti hai but apko ye pata hai k vo apne secrets kitni aashani se chhupa jati hai. Guruji ne hame Moan rahene ko kaha tha. apko or logo ne bhi bataya hoga moan raho chup raho but ye bhi sach hai k moan rahena bahot muskil hai or itna practical nhi hai. So aaj m apko ek alag tarah k moan k bare m batav ga jo jayada aashan hai or jayada practical. Jise m name duga LADKIYO KA MOAN.

Es moan k hisab se agar aap pura din bhi bolte ho but apna koi secret, apni koi personal bat ya apne dimag m aaya hua koi business ka idea ya koi acha idea ya koi bhi kimati bat nhi batate to aap moan m ho but agar aap din m sirf 10 min bhi bolte ho lekin usme apna koi secret ya koi bhi kimti Baat batate ho to aap moan m nhi ho. Ab aap ye soch rahe hoge k mene ese ladkiyo ka moan kyu name diya? kyu k jayadatar ladkiya yahi to krti hai. Suman devika ye sab pura din bolti raheti thi lekin kya unhone Chandu ko unke BF (Satyam) ke bare m kuch pata chalne diya tha? nhi na. M jab naya naya ladkiyo k bich aaya tha tab mujhe kishi ladkine ye pata nhi chal ne diya tha k unka koi BF hai or nahi kishi or ko pata tha. Mene unmese hi ladki select krne k bare m socha but jab m ladkiyo k jayada karib aay jab mene unka trust jita tab pata chala jinko m GF banane ka soch raha hu unke already BF hai. Ladkiya class m bahot se ladko se pura din bat krti thi lekin vo apne bare m jayada kuch nhi batatai thi. Nahi apne BF k bare m nahi or koi personal bat. Lekin dusri taraf ladke apne bare m sab batate the. Har arre-gerre ko unki personal life k bare m sab pata hota tha. Jab ladke ko koi ladki pasand aati hai to sab ko bata dete hai lekin dusri taraf ladkiya kishi ko nhi batati ulta uski burai krti hai taki uski Saheli us ladkese dur rahe. Or yahi nhi k ladki sirf apni baate chupati thi dusri taraf vo bakiyo ki sari baate jan jati thi. Mere pass ek E-mail aayi ek ladkene pucha “meri friend ko m apne bare m batata raheta hu lekin vo sirf smile de deti hai or apne bare m kuch nhi batati” m kaheta hu ladki ko apne bare m utna hi batav jitna vo apko samne apne bare m batati hai and agar vo nhi batati to aap bhi apne bare m mat bataya kro dusre topics pe bat kro. Dekho meri life m sabse bade teacher guruji rahe hai dusre k bare m m nhi batav ga or 3rd pe ladkiya rahi hai. Ladkiyo ki jitni tarif ki jaye kam hai. Mene unse bahot khuch sikha hai unme she ye ek cheej hai jo mene observe kari hai.

Halaki har ladki asi nhi hoti hai kuch bevkuf bhi hoti hai jo sab ko sab bata deti hai to my dear friends asi ladkiyo se dur raho vo jayada kam ki nhi hoti hai vo apko badnam kr degi. Dusri taraf ladkiya bhi ye dekh ti hai k kya ye banda apne secrets chupa pata hai? Agar vo dekhti hai k aap to sab ko sabkuch bata dete ho to vo apko BF nhi banati kyu k vo apna name badnam nhi krna chahti. Kabhi kabhi kya hota hai k hum kishi k karib aa jate hai or hum use apne bare m batane lagte hai uspe trust kr k lekin kuch time bad hame vahi banda pasand nhi aata or ab hum usse dosti bhi nhi tod sakte kyu k hum ne usse apne bare m bahot kuch bata diya hai or hum pachtate hai k hum ne use kyu khuch bataya. Kuch gadhe to guruji ki sikhay hue baate bhi sab ko bata dete hai. Dekho dusro ko apni baate batane se kya nukshan hota hai vo m jayada nhi batav ga kyu k vo already dusre members ne apni post m bataya hai m sirf itna batav ga k apke apne bare m bole hua ek ek word ki apko kimat chukani padegi or dusre k bare m jane hua ek ek word ki apko kimat milegi.

Ab bat krte hai es Ladkiyo k moan ki survat kese kare? Hame bachpan se jayada bolne ki or apne bare m batatane ki aadat hai to hame es habit ko change krna hoga. Hamara pahela task hai jayada bolne ki habit ko kam krna es k liye aap chaho to kuch time tak moan raho 1 ya 2 month apki marzi jitna ho sake utna kam bolo bina jaroorat k ek word bhi nhi. Fir jab chup rahene ki aadat pad jaye tab firse bolne ki aadat dalni hai. Bolne ki aadat 2 types ki hoti hai ek jisme aap apne bare m sab kuch bata dete ho or dusri jisme aap kitna bhi kyu na bolo but apne bare m kuch nhi batate. Hame ye 2nd vali aadat dalni hai. Esme hame apne bare m kuch nhi batana sirf dusri baate krni hai jaise dharmik baate, movies, cricket match or kuch bhi. Sirf personal or kimti baate nhi krni hai or agar bina bat bole nhi raha ja raha to kahi pe likh lo ya akele m khud ko hi bata do man shant ho jayega. Or sirf apne bare m nhi batane ki aadat nhi ladkiyo ki tarah dusro ki baate janne ki bhi aadat dalni hai Ladkiyo se sikho.

Guruji jo baate sikhate hai chup raho, saamp bano ya azgar bano unme se kitni qualities to ladkiyo m already hoti hai es liye m kahuga LADKI BANO…

6 Comments

Ajay Kumar

Ajay Kumar 14/05/2018 at 7:11 am

Awesome.

    Secret Superstar

    Secret Superstar 14/05/2018 at 12:56 pm

    Thank You! and bhaio post achi lagi hoto like dete jana apki likes mujhe or post banane k liye motivate karegi. and meri khubia or kamiya dono comment kr ke batana isse meri help hogi.

Mihir Patel

Mihir Patel 14/05/2018 at 7:48 am

wese ladki saaf saaf to sab kuch nahi batati lekin bato bato main apne bare main bahot kuch bata deti hain.

    Secret Superstar

    Secret Superstar 14/05/2018 at 11:50 am

    Ha but vo aregere ko nhi batati jaisa mene post m likha hai pure class m kuch ladkiyo ne mujhe hi sirf bataya tha.

Mukesh Prajapati

Mukesh Prajapati 14/05/2018 at 12:06 pm

Dear..kam shabdo me baat kahane ki kosish karo..

    Secret Superstar

    Secret Superstar 15/05/2018 at 10:00 am

    Thank You! Next post se try karuga jitna ho short rahe

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